Fast talker
When I'm happy, I talk fast.
People tell me, "Talk slower."
That makes me less happy.
I talk slower. People understand me better.
And I'm less happy.
I tell non-English speakers: "Don't translate for me."
They never believe me. They switch to English.
A lot of the time, I'm happier not understanding.
I love understanding people without understanding their words.
Watching their mannerisms, their volume, their face. Listening.
We don't need to always understand.
We need to listen beyond the words.
That's what creates connection.
Slow words are comforting.
I prefer to hear the truth.